Finding, Vetting and Hiring the Right Dominant for YOU
Oftentimes, we hear of dominants and masters placing a potential submissive or slave “under consideration:” this indicating that there is a trial period where the dominant type person gauges suitability and decides whether or not the s-type person is “worthy” of the honor of being owned. But what about the other way around? Is it not also the responsibility of the submissive or slave to ascertain “worthiness,” insure the are giving themselves over to a suitable partner, and ready to take this important step?
Finding a good match in the Default World is tough. Adding on the layer of Power Exchange (PE) dynamics can make this a truly overwhelming prospect. It is vital that submissives and slaves take a responsible, clear-eyed approach to negotiation submission and slavery.
In this session, we will discuss the role of self-esteem in choosing the best dominant or master for you
*what the “Prime Directive” is and what it means to you,
*Identifying and maintaining your core identity
*Negotiation for mutually assured success.
You, dear submissive and slave, are your most valuable commodity: are you taking care to hand yourself over to someone who will care for you?
When: 1PM to 3PM
Cost: $25, $20 in advance.
(No other CSPC discounts or AYCE cards applicable.)
About the Educator:
Mollena (Mo) Williams is a native New Yorker, performer, actor, award-winning
writer and BDSM educator. She is International Ms. Leather 2010 and Ms. SF
Leather 2009. Consciously kinky since 1993 and active in leather and BDSM
since 1996, she travels extensively, speaking on topics including kink, BDSM,
power exchange relationships and negotiating it all safely. Read more about
Mollena at The Perverted Negress, Mollena.com.
This workshop is produced by the Foundation for Sex Positive Culture, producer of the Seattle Erotic Art Festival. Our mission is to promote the many ways sex is beneficial through education, outreach, the arts, advocacy, and research programs that serve the public. As a 501c3, we are eligible for tax benefits, matching contributions and grant funding, and donations may be tax deductible. Please go to TheFSPC.org for more information.
This event is sponsored by the Center for Sex Positive Culture.
